3 Simple Shifts for Smoother Co-Parenting

Co-parenting isn’t just about splitting time—it’s about showing up with intention, even when things feel tough, unpredictable, or just plain awkward.

This issue, we’re diving into 3 powerful mindset and communication shifts that can create more peace, clarity, and teamwork—no matter where you are in your co-parenting journey.

🔁 Shift #1: Focus on the Child, Not the Conflict
When tension rises, bring the focus back to what you both agree on: your child’s well-being. That shared purpose can be your anchor.

🧠 Try this: Instead of "Why didn’t you tell me about the schedule change?" → Say, "Let’s figure out a system so [child’s name] doesn’t get caught in the middle."

📣 Shift #2: Practice Calm, Consistent Communication
Emotions can cloud messages. Stick to neutral, child-centered language. Text, email, or use a co-parenting app if needed.

🧠 Try this: Set a “cool-off” period before responding to heated messages. Sometimes, 10 minutes of space can save 10 hours of tension.

🤝 Shift #3: Create Micro-Wins Together
Celebrate the small moments of cooperation—because they matter. A shared laugh at pickup or agreeing on bedtime rules is progress.

🧠 Try this: Send a quick “thanks” after a smooth handoff or agreement. You don’t have to be best friends—just allies in raising a great kid.

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📬 Question of the Month:
What’s one thing you wish your co-parent better understood about your child—or about you?
Hit reply and let us know. We might feature anonymous answers in the next newsletter.

With purpose and support,

Francisca & Bonnie
– The Savvy Co-Parenting Team